by Teri Lynn CanSee
If you’re an Aries or Taurus woman, life looks different than it does for a man, especially when it comes to attracting a friend or a mate and how you interact with them.
Aries — I am
The Aries Female is an energetic, flirtatious force of nature who wants to be swept off her feet and cherished but will step on your toes the minute she feels smothered. She is most attracted to good-looking, successful lovers capable of boosting her not-insignificant self-esteem. If you can’t keep her interest, she will quickly leave you behind in a cloud of dust, having traded you in for a pricier, showier model. If you’ve won her heart, be prepared—she can be jealous, competitive and downright cruel. On the flip side, she’s capable of complete loyalty and will demand you give her the same.
The Aries Male is a dynamic go-getter, who wants to be overwhelmed by passion and emotion, and cannot stand for things to become complacent or routine. He likes his partners to be powerful and motivated, beautiful and the sexual equivalent of a tornado. His hair-trigger anger and self-righteous attitude can take some getting used to but he cools down as quickly as he heats up. Boredom is the quickest way to make him stray but that’s only if you’ve proven exciting enough to get a commitment out of him in the first place.
Taurus — I have
The Taurus Female is as strong of heart as she is of mind. She tends to hide her own vulnerabilities, usually by immersing herself into nurturing those she loves. She’s drawn to partners who are her equal (or better!) on the material plane—ones who offer up some type of guarantee for the future, like a wedding ring and financial security. She most likely will appear prim-and-proper out in public but can be quite the wild child behind closed doors. She’s as stubborn as she is loving and finds it easy to get stuck in her ways. The concept of give-and-take sometimes passes her by and she can be possessive to the point of oppression.
The Taurus Male is a mountain of integrity and strength, loyal and loving. He has a habit of seeing things black or white. He expects the same level of loyalty he gives and will toss a flirty lover to the curb for flirting with anyone other than him—from his viewpoint, his piles of erotica don’t count as an indiscretion. Anything he may be lacking in a sexually adventuresome spirit is made up for by his sexual appetite.